I don't have many productive comments, unfortunately, not first thing in the morning but I read through the whole post and gods, woman, it's your wedding. I really don't think you're being a Bridezilla at all, because your mother and in-laws alike are owed voices and that is all. Your can listen to opinions and still hold your own; the more you can do to make your wedding enjoyable, and not stressful, the better! That said, I think you need to sit down with the whole 'involved family' and have a talk about this before things turn sour...
*hugs* I hope you can work it all out. I'm worried about my wedding now; we're at probably the two-year point, too.
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Date: 2014-12-09 02:32 pm (UTC)*hugs* I hope you can work it all out. I'm worried about my wedding now; we're at probably the two-year point, too.